''WHY HE DIDN'T MARRY YOU...'' PART 1

You have been seeing this guy or you were just friends, then suddenly he got engaged and tied the knot with another woman...You are shocked and dumbfounded...Why didn't he marry me? But there are reasons why a man would end up not marrying you. Let's talk about them.

1. HIS FAMILY SAID NO

One of the major reasons why a guy won't marry you is when the family says NO. You might think love should make him disobey them but dearies, It is not that easy...He would only fight it if he has people on his side; a brother or mother on his side but whereby he is the only one, then a serious red flag is up. If he marries you, he would be an enemy of his own family and you would not like that either. Moreover, most marriages with so much drama and bad exchange of words thrown into it before it kicks off barely last. Do not blame him for saying NO.

2. YOU ARE OVER 30

Sad as it is, a spade must be called a spade...While a man's age may not overly matter in marriages; a lady's age does. This is because, medically a lady's chances to conceive is on the downward, so if you are 35, It means your chances are slimmer...No wonder most ladies settle down in their 20s...So he left because you were over 30 and if you are in your 20s reading this, please take your chances with a matured mind because it actually gets tougher as you grow older...and if you are over 30, do not lose hope. The fact is some men are ready to take that risk with you while others will not..Be hopeful baby.

3. YOU DO NOT RESPECT HIM

I believe no man will marry a disrespectful woman. Even if he is a truck pusher or a bus conductor, he needs you to respect him..If a woman finds it difficult to say good morning, then getting married will be difficult. A man does not need you to worship him...He only needs you to respect him..Keeping the simple rules can save you...like not talking when he is talking, not walking out on him, shouting and nagging at the top of your voice...not taking simple instructions or corrections. Once you respect a man, you are 50% likely to be his bride...So he did not marry you and now you know why!.

4. YOU COULD NOT KEEP HIS HOME

Every man believes a woman should be able to keep the home, make the house clean, sweep and tidy the bedroom. How your man's friends know you came is actually the state of his apartment after your visit...A man is actually also responsible for his clean home but a woman always have that extra touch...So, If his place becomes worse when you are around or far better in your absence...babe, forget it, you are not walking down the aisle with him. Every man wants and desires a complete woman. He knows his mum kept his father's house well and he expects the same from you as well. He did not marry you because you are dirty. Please change today!

5. YOU CANNOT COOK

So you did not know how to cook...your mum did not teach you...and you did not learn from your friends. He left you because you could not cook. All you prepare is noodles and eggs...the same one he prepares while you were away....Absolute No...There should be a difference...next time, learn to mesmerize your man with delicacies. Go to a culinary school if you need to and do not waste away because a man needs a woman who can cook...remember, that is one of the major roads to his heart.

6. YOUR CLASS WAS TOO HIGH

So you are the Governor's daughter and met your man while he is farming in the village. You loved his muscles and bravery...overly manly, caring and you got talking and became friends. This was not a movie. You would have loved him to be the one but your class is way too high...He likes you but he will not marry you because he does not want to worship you nor your family as he will love to express himself easily. you will need to find a class not too far from yours. While a classy man can marry anybody, a woman from a wealthy home finds it very difficult...For it to ever work, the woman must be willing to bring up the man to her class and that is some hardwork because many ladies would not want to go that route.

7. YOU WANT HIM TO JOIN YOUR CHURCH

So you told your man to join your church or forget you...and he chose the latter. If we take the clock back to the 90s, I am quite sure a lot of our aunties would change the decision they took as many women suffered the church choice ignorance. He is an Anglican and I am a Roman Catholic...and so they insist he must change to my church...and many got old at home because of their ignorance. You are a Christian and If your man is a Christian, Please follow him because he may be your last chance of getting married. Do not act foolishly. A man is the head of the house and If he is a good Christian and you can vouch for his good character, then you should say yes. If you push him away, then blame no one when you remain a spinster. Be wise!